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Oh, to be a teenager

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My fifteen year old daughter loves to write; she always has. For years I have been finding piles of notebook paper in drawers and under her bed – all stories in the making. One night last week Gwen finished her homework by 9:00 pm, and she proclaimed she was just going to write.

“Write something for my blog!” I said.

“What should I write about?” she asked.

I told her to write whatever she wanted, whatever she knew. Write about being a teenager. Less than an hour later I received an email with the following post. I didn’t edit it at all. Funny thing is, one choice for today’s Finish the Sentence Friday prompt is “Right now I am thankful for…” Gwen’s piece fits in perfectly, and that is a total coincidence. I guess Thankful is in the air…
the teenager speaks


Yes, I am a teenager. Yes, I am stuck in that horrendous, dreaded, awkward phase called puberty. And yes, I have incredibly dark circles under my eyes and those fabulous pilly sweatpants that are, oh so, attractive. But I guess that’s a part of going through high school and striving to do your best.

Being a teenager is a hassle – and those aren’t just my uninvited hormones talking. I am up at the crack of dawn (really before the crack of dawn) to get ready for school. I wake up, turn off my alarm, brush my teeth and wash my face. I throw on the first clothes I see, which happen to never be the clothes my mom bought me, rather my old sweatpants and a sweatshirt or a North Face. I barely even touch my face – maybe some concealer if I actually care. What does it matter to me? I have no one to impress. It’s also 6:30 in the morning and the only thing that I am thinking about is the test in Chemistry that I forgot to study for. I shove some breakfast down and pack up my backpack, grabbing a water bottle as I leave.

When I get to school, I am met by the lovely faces of my teachers reminding me of the essay I have due tomorrow or the Pre-Calculus test that is in two days on topics that we never learned. I finally finish the school day only to realize that I have 10 pounds (literally, not figuratively) of homework to do. So, I stay up and write essays and study and do other homework until 10:30pm and am asleep by 11 – on good days. There have been days where I have been bogged down with homework until 1:30am! I’m 15 years old and getting less than 5 of sleep? That just doesn’t sound right.

Though it may not seem like it, I am a very appreciative person – I realize that I’m really lucky to be where I am and have what I have. I know that some people would give an arm and a leg for an education like I’m receiving. I know this.  I try so hard to realize how valuable my education is, but with the stress of high school, the ensuing college search, balancing with attempting to have somewhat of a social life, it’s hard to appreciate school and the information I’m learning.

But I advise you – whatever you might do, whatever you might have – to try to appreciate at least one different thing a day. Things you may take for granted or complain about. Because you’re one of the people in the world that can read when over 750 million people can’t. Be thankful for the little things, because you don’t appreciate them as much as you should. But we have to remember that those little things are the most important things in the end.
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Thank you Gwen, for letting me share your words. I’m thankful for you, a million times over.
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